Holistic Sex Therapist · Menopause Coach · Couples Counsellor

A space to talk
about what matters.

I believe that open, honest conversation about sex, desire, intimacy and the body is one of the most powerful tools we have. My practice is a warm, non-judgmental space for individuals and couples.

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About me

Lucy

Hello, I'm Lucy.

I am a Holistic Sex Therapist, Menopause Coach and Couples Counsellor with a deep commitment to creating space for the conversations that matter most - the ones that often go unspoken.

My approach is holistic. I work with the whole person, not just the presenting issue. Whether you are navigating a shift in desire, a physical difficulty, challenges communicating with a partner, questions about identity, or the profound changes that come with menopause, there is a place for your story here.

My understanding of sexuality, identity and relationship diversity goes beyond the clinical - I bring personal as well as professional experience to this work.

I work in both English and French and warmly welcome clients of all genders, orientations and relationship structures.

Non-judgmental

A space where everything can be said, without shame or embarrassment.

Holistic

Body, mind and relationship - all interconnected, all welcome.

Inclusive

All genders, orientations and relationship structures are welcome here.

Collaborative

We work together at your pace, towards your goals.

What I offer

Services

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Individual Sex Therapy

For individuals navigating physical concerns (vaginismus, pain, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation), low desire, questions of identity, or simply wanting a deeper understanding of their sexuality.

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Couples Counselling

For couples feeling disconnected, struggling to communicate about intimacy, navigating mismatched desire or rebuilding closeness. All relationship structures welcome.

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Menopause Coaching

Navigating menopause - the physical changes, the shifts in desire and identity, the impact on relationships. A space to understand, process and move forward with confidence.

Who is this for?

You don't need a crisis to reach out.

Whether you've been carrying something quietly for years or something has shifted recently - you are welcome here.

Physical concerns

Vaginismus, pain during sex, premature ejaculation, erectile difficulties

Desire & connection

Low libido, mismatched desire, navigating menopause & body changes

Communication & intimacy

Feeling disconnected, struggling to talk about sex, rebuilding closeness

Identity & exploration

Questions around gender, sexuality, relationships & self

Common questions

You might be wondering…

The first session is simply a conversation. I will ask you quite a lot of questions - not to test you, but because I genuinely want to understand who you are and what has brought you to me. If anything doesn't feel comfortable to answer, just say so - there is no obligation to go anywhere you're not ready to go. It's also a chance for you to get a feel for how I work and to ask me anything you want to know. Nothing is expected of you other than showing up.

Not at all. Many people come simply because they want a deeper understanding of themselves, their desires, or their relationships - without anything being "wrong". Curiosity, a sense that something could be better, or a life transition are all perfectly good reasons to reach out.

Yes. What you share in sessions stays between us. Confidentiality is a cornerstone of this work, and I take it seriously. The only exceptions are situations where there is a risk to your safety or someone else's - and I would always discuss this with you directly.

It's very common for one partner to be more ready than the other. Individual sessions can be a good starting point - working through your own feelings can sometimes open a door that felt closed. If and when both partners are willing, couples sessions can begin at any point. There's no right order.

Yes - and genuinely so. My understanding of sexuality, identity and relationship diversity goes beyond the clinical. I bring personal as well as professional experience to this work, and I do not treat non-heterosexual, non-binary or non-monogamous lives as problems to be explained. You won't need to educate me on the basics.

All sessions take place via secure video call - you just need a quiet, private space and a phone, tablet or computer. Many people find the online format actually makes it easier to open up, from the comfort of their own environment. Sessions are available across time zones, in English and French.

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Let's begin.

All sessions are held online via video call, at a time that suits you. I work with clients worldwide, in English and French.

◎ Online via video call

◎ English & French

◎ All genders, orientations & relationship structures welcome

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Let's talk.

Whether you're ready to book, have questions, or simply want to know more - please don't hesitate to reach out. There's no obligation and no judgement.

I respond to all messages within 48 hours. All sessions are held online via video call, in English or French.

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